you know who I’m talking too here & I do it not to be mean or hateful but to give you some guidance & because I care enough about the transgender community to speak the truth . you DO NOT get to choose your gender , your gender doesn’t change just because you feel like a man or a woman ( that’s just fucking ridiculous ) nor does it change just because you announced that it’s changed . if you were born with a penis your a man & if born with a vagina your a woman ........ yes people it really is that simple .